our 50 Favorite Lesbian Wedding Songs For The Ultimate Playlist

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A lesbian couple getting married.


If you’re here, you probably said “Yes, I will marry you!” to the woman of your life, or you popped the big question yourself. 

Either way, congrats on the upcoming wedding! 

That said, have you already picked out some lesbian wedding songs for your big day? We get it, with songs usually written from a cis-het perspective, it’s tricky to find picks that won’t ruin the moment with the words “him and her” (not today!) 

But that’s why we’re here! To help make it easier, we rounded up 50 of our favorite lesbian wedding songs you can add to your playlist! We even categorized them as romantic ballads, classics, country, rock, and instrumental, and prioritized adding lesbian wedding songs by LGBTQ+ artists.

Alright, let’s get started!

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Romantic Ballads

To start off, you can never go wrong with adding romantic ballads on your wedding playlist. Luckily for you ladies, there’s plenty of swoon-worthy “sung by her, for her” songs in this category, so we went ahead and added our favorite ones on the list. 

  1. Tegan and Sara – “Closer”
  2. Mary Lambert – “She Keeps Me Warm”
  3. Brandi Carlile – “The Story”
  4. Indigo Girls – “Power of Two”
  5. Courtney Barnett – “Depreston”
  6. Janelle Monáe – “PrimeTime” (feat. Miguel)
  7. LP – “Lost on You”
  8. Shura – “What’s It Gonna Be?”
  9. Hayley Kiyoko – “Curious”
  10. Sia – “Helium”


Same-sex couples have proven that true love exists for everyone since forever, and there are countless songs that have celebrated that fact for just as long. So, if you’re looking for classic songs for lesbian weddings, here’s some of our top picks. Whether one of you is only walking down the aisle or you’re breaking tradition by going together, there’s something in this list that can accompany you. 

  1. Dusty Springfield – “Son of a Preacher Man”
  2. Janis Ian – “At Seventeen”
  3. Tracy Chapman – “Give Me One Reason”
  4. kd lang – “Constant Craving”
  5. Joan Armatrading – “Love and Affection”
  6. Elton John – “Your Song”
  7. Roberta Flack – “The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face”
  8. Nina Simone – “I Put a Spell on You”
  9. Sam Smith – “Stay With Me”
  10. Cyndi Lauper – “Time After Time”
A marriage event where one of our DJs played the top lesbian wedding songs.

Country Tunes

If you’re looking to add a bit of twang in your big day, then these country lesbian wedding tunes are ripe for picking! From Kacey Musgraves’ sweet and sappy “Butterflies” to Dolly Parton’s nostalgic “I Will Always Love You,” these country lesbian marriage songs will make you feel like you’re in your very own rom-com movie! 

  1. Chely Wright – “Shut Up and Drive”
  2. Kacey Musgraves – “Butterflies”
  3. Brandy Clark – “Love Can Go to Hell”
  4. Cam – “Burning House”
  5. K.D. Lang – “Hallelujah”
  6. Brandi Carlile – “Turpentine”
  7. Shawn Colvin – “Shotgun Down the Avalanche”
  8. Dolly Parton – “I Will Always Love You”
  9. Gretchen Wilson – “I’d Love to Be Your Last”
  10. Sugarland – “Stay”

Rock Hits

Aside from the sweeping guitars and banging drums, rock is also known for rejecting traditional gender roles, so why not add some of that in your playlist of lesbian marriage songs? Not only will these songs make you feel like you can take on the world with your partner, but it’s also a great way to up the atmosphere throughout the whole event! 

  1. Halestorm – “Here’s to Us”
  2. Lzzy Hale – “Break In” (feat. Amy Lee)
  3. Tegan and Sara – “Call It Off”
  4. The Cranberries – “Linger”
  5. Melissa Etheridge – “Come to My Window”
  6. Heart – “Crazy on You”
  7. Lady Gaga – “Speechless”
  8. Fleetwood Mac – “You Make Loving Fun”
  9. Alanis Morissette – “Head Over Feet”
  10. Queen – “Somebody to Love”
One of our DJs at an event playing lesbian wedding songs.


We get it, words can sometimes be distracting (especially when they’re from a straight perspective), so we also added a healthy dose of great instrumental lesbian wedding tunes you can play. Whatever your tastes may be, these songs should add just the right amount of romance and sophistication to your marriage… perfect for complimenting your lovely wedding dresses! 

  1. Ludovico Einaudi – “Nuvole Bianche”
  2. Yiruma – “River Flows in You”
  3. Ólafur Arnalds – “Near Light”
  4. Explosions in the Sky – “Your Hand in Mine”
  5. Max Richter – “On the Nature of Daylight”
  6. Balmorhea – “Settler”
  7. Sigur Rós – “Samskeyti”
  8. Oliver Tank – “Help You Breathe”
  9. Mogwai – “Take Me Somewhere Nice”
  10. Ludovico Einaudi – “Divenire”

Tips For Picking The Best Lesbian Wedding Songs

Need some extra tips for your big day? We got you covered with these: 

Reflect Your Relationship: To start off, make sure you pick songs that you can resonate with! Between all your shared experiences and memories together as a couple, we’re sure there’s a few songs that have accompanied you along the way. 

Consider LGBTQ+ Artists: Another point to consider is to include songs by LGBTQ+ and queer artists on your playlist of lesbian wedding tunes. After all, these songs might just add that personal touch and perspective that you’re looking for the whole time. 

Diverse Genres: Like with our list above, opt for different genres instead of putting yourself in a box. This way, your wedding playlist becomes dynamic, and will certainly stop the event (especially the wedding reception) from being stale or boring. Nobody wants that, especially at a lesbian wedding!

Collaborate with Your Partner: Hey, this is a two-woman team from now on, so why not ask for help from your partner? You can discuss your musical preferences, tastes, favorite artists, and whatnot while doing this, while also learning more about each other. Sounds like a win-win for us!

Balance Sentimentality and Fun: It may sound like the most fun thing ever, but playing upbeat anthem after upbeat anthem should be saved for, at least, the wedding reception. Instead, opt for a good balance of fun and sentimentality throughout the event just to even out the mood. After all, you don’t want grandma getting too tired before the festivities even begin! 

Consult With Your Wedding DJ: Much like you consulted your partner, make sure you consult with your wedding DJ for the wedding playlist! Communicate your preferences, give them your list of songs, and talk about transitions and the like to ensure a smooth flow all throughout. Discuss backup plans as well, especially if there are sudden interruptions at the  venue (fingers crossed there won’t be!)

Have Fun: We say this a lot at the end of our articles, but ultimately, have fun! Your upcoming wedding is proof that you’ve made it as a couple, so the process of getting to that long-awaited “I do” should be memorable, no matter what songs are playing. So relax and don’t think too hard about your song picks!

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And there you have it – our list of the top 50 songs for lesbian weddings. We hope that was helpful! 

While it can be too easy to get caught up in all of these songs, what ultimately matters is the fact that you and your partner are now about to seal the deal forever, and whatever else is happening in the background should be secondary.

Of course, it’s best to play songs that fit the occasion… and that’s exactly where we come in at DJing.ca! As Canada’s largest DJ company, we’ve sent out professional DJs to more than 1,000 successful events in order to maintain our pristine 5-star rating, and we can’t wait to come to yours!

So go ahead and fill up our quote form, and our talented team at DJing.ca will get in touch immediately. With that, we wish you nothing but the best in your upcoming wedding, you lovely ladies!

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